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Our child custody lawyers understand that parenting matters are not always straightforward. Early decisions can affect how your matter progresses and the outcome. Without clear advice, it is easy to take steps that lead to delays, increased conflict, or arrangements that do not properly reflect your child’s needs.
At Justice Family Lawyers, we take a structured, measured approach to help you move forward with peace of mind about your children’s stability. Our family law firm is widely recognised for our consistent results and the trust it has built with thousands of families across Sydney, with a strong track record of helping parents reach stable, workable outcomes that prioritise children’s long-term wellbeing.
If you are unsure of where to start, get in touch today. We’ll help you resolve your family law issues efficiently and effectively, with no confusion or guesswork.
The parenting arrangements you make today will shape your family’s tomorrow.
Choosing the right legal support is so important when you are making parenting arrangements after separation. These decisions are not just legal. They shape your child’s day-to-day life, their stability, and your long-term relationship with them.
When you work with our team, you’ll always get compassionate, strategic guidance that supports both the emotional and legal aspects of your matter. Our experienced parenting and child custody lawyers are recognised for combining strong legal skills with emotional intelligence, helping parents understand their rights and responsibilities while focusing on what matters most – achieving outcomes that protect children’s best interests.
You will understand your rights and responsibilities from the outset, and get advice grounded in how the law applies to your situation and what outcomes are realistically achievable. Our support extends beyond court representation. You are guided through each stage of the process, including legal advice, mediation or court proceedings, structured negotiation, and practical steps such as preparing parenting plans, managing supervised arrangements, or updating existing orders as circumstances change.
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How our child custody lawyers help you make arrangements that work for your family
In most cases, parents can agree on parenting arrangements, and a family lawyer can ensure the agreements are fair, workable, and in the child or children’s best interests. Arrangements need to be aligned with the child’s safety and best interests, with agreements made regarding schooling, health, holidays, culture and religion, and maintaining meaningful relationships with parents and carers.
We help by:
- Negotiating agreements
- Drafting parenting plans and consent orders
- Supporting you during the mediation process
- Court representation where required
- Resolving co-parenting disputes after orders are made
- Altering parenting orders
- Enforcing orders
With a strong track record of resolving disputes and deep familiarity with procedural requirements, our specialist child custody lawyers can help reduce stress, streamline negotiations, and work toward stable solutions that reflect your family’s unique needs and long-term wellbeing.
How We Can Help
Our Services
We provide clear, strategic advice on child custody and parenting arrangements, tailored to your family’s circumstances. You will understand your options, your responsibilities, and the steps needed to reach outcomes that support your children and provide stability moving forward.
Legal Consultation
Many clients consult our child custody lawyers early to get a sense of what to expect and how best to proceed. A well-timed consultation with a lawyer in Australia can help families avoid costly disputes later.
Family Court Representation
We appear on your behalf during hearings, trials, or interim matters. With the help of our experienced family lawyers, you can present your matter clearly and ensure your voice is heard.
Negotiation & Mediation
Our team can help you resolve disputes without litigation. When both parents are willing to cooperate, a custody lawyer in Australia can help draft parenting plans and consent orders that protect children and reduce stress.
Parenting Plans & Consent Orders
Drafting and reviewing parenting plans and consent orders that reflect your child’s best interests, ensuring that arrangements are practical, enforceable, and built to last.
Altering Arrangements
We assist with applying to vary existing arrangements when circumstances change. Our child custody lawyers can help make sure the court understands why the changes are necessary.\Supervised Contact Services
Paternity Issues
Assisting with establishing legal parentage where needed. A custody lawyer in Australia can help you understand your rights and responsibilities when paternity is in question.
How are parenting arrangements made in Australia?
In Australia, there are several ways to make parenting arrangements, depending on your situation:
- By private agreement: This can work when co-parents communicate well and agree on care, routines, and decision-making. It is still sensible to record the agreement in writing, even informally, so it can be referred to if issues arise.
- Parenting Plans: These are written agreements, prepared with or without a lawyer, that set out practical arrangements such as time, schooling, holidays and communication. They are not legally enforceable but can guide future decisions.
- Consent Orders: Where both parties agree, lawyers can formalise terms into binding court orders. The Court approves them without a hearing if satisfied they are in the child’s best interests.
Parenting Orders: If no agreement is reached, the Court can decide arrangements based on the child’s best interests under the Family Law Act 1975.
Our child custody lawyers place the best interests of your children first.
Please note that in Australia, ‘ child custody’ is still commonly used, but it’s an outdated term that is no longer used in Australian family law. The correct terms are parenting arrangements, time with children and care of children.
In Australian family law, under s 60CC of the Family Law Act, parenting matters are focused on what is in a child’s best interests. ‘Best interests’ is a broad framework of guidelines that aims to look holistically at what arrangements will best serve a child’s wellbeing.
Considerations include:
- What arrangements best keep the child and their carers safe, including from family violence, abuse, neglect or harm
- A child’s views, depending on their age and maturity
- The child’s developmental, emotional, psychological and cultural needs
- Each parent or carer’s ability to meet those needs
- The benefit of the child having a relationship with parents and other important people, where it is safe
- Any other relevant factors specific to the child’s situation
While this can look different for every family, the most important thing is that a child, or children, have their needs met and are safe and stable, with meaningful connections to both parents, where possible.
Avenues for resolving parenting disputes in Australian family law
When a relationship breaks down, communication between the parents becomes difficult, and the children can even be used as tools to manipulate the other party. Managing ongoing disputes, high-conflict matters or a difficult co-parent can be exhausting and takes its toll on the children involved. You may have been denied access, have a co-parent who refuses to adhere to agreements (or even court orders), have had your children influenced by the other parent’s opinions, be faced with a relocation request or be unable to communicate with the other party at all.
There are many avenues for resolving parenting disputes, which we’ll look at below. It’s important to seek legal advice as early as possible to address conflicts before they escalate.
Private or Lawyer-Assisted Negotiation
The best place to start is always a verbal or written discussion in most cases. A child custody lawyer can assist in negotiations to ensure your needs are heard.
Formalising Parenting Plans
If your current parenting plan has gaps, or hasn’t been formalised into consent orders, defining a structure and having it made legally enforceable can help to reduce ongoing disputes.
Mediation & Family Dispute Resolution
Having an informal third-party assist with negotiations is helpful when you need to address matters but want to avoid court. A family lawyer can be present to assist you on the day and help to protect your position during the process.
Counselling or Counselling Orders
In some cases, family counselling, or counselling to address specific issues, may be a helpful avenue to achieving better dynamics, either through agreement or via a court order.
Parenting Co-Ordination
Parenting co-ordination is a service offered by family lawyers who are trained in helping high-conflict separated couples better manage parenting matters.
Enforcement Orders
If you have consent orders, and orders are not being complied with, an enforcement order from the courts can encourage the other parent to abide by the orders in place.
Contravention Orders
If you have consent orders in place, and your co-parent goes against the orders, you can apply to the courts for a contravention order for consequences for non-compliance with orders to be applied.
Court Resolution
In some cases, going to court may be your only option to resolve the matter. In complex cases, an Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL) may be appointed, or experts such as Family Report Writers may be brought in to decide on the best course of action.
Family & Domestic Violence Orders
If ongoing behaviours are safety concerns, an order can be sought to protect the affected children and parent.
Supervised Visitation
If there are any risks or safety concerns for children around normal visitation, supervised visits can be requested to ensure the safety of the child or children.
If you are unsure of the best way forward, please get in touch with our parenting lawyers today for advice on your legal options.
Expert Insights On The Australian Family Law System
If you are trying to understand how divorce and family law work in Australia, having clear explanations can make a significant difference. Justice Family Lawyers provides practical, real-world explanations of family law issues, presented by our Director, Hayder Shkara. These resources are designed to help you understand not just the law, but how it applies to your situation, so you can make informed decisions.
Please note, this is general information only, not legal advice.
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How Justice Family Lawyers support you through parenting & custody matters
Parenting matters are often approached with the idea of reaching an agreement. The reality is that outcomes are shaped by how arrangements work in practice, not just what is discussed between parents.
Early decisions around time, routines, communication and schooling tend to set the direction. Once those patterns are in place, they can carry real weight if the matter later needs to be formalised.
The approach at Justice Family Lawyers is structured, practical, and focused on what is best for your child and works in the real world.
Clear advice from the outset
You are given a direct explanation of how parenting laws apply to your situation, including how arrangements are assessed and what factors the court considers most important. This gives you a clear understanding of where you stand before decisions are made.
A structured, strategic approach
Parenting arrangements are built over time. You are guided on how to approach early discussions and interim arrangements so they are workable, consistent and aligned with how matters are ultimately assessed.
Supporting your role as a parent
The focus is on helping you stay meaningfully involved in your child’s life in a way that reflects their needs and day-to-day reality. Where issues arise, including changes in circumstances or disagreements, these are managed with a view to maintaining stability for the child.
Out of court resolutions, where possible
Many parenting matters can be resolved through negotiation or mediation when approached with clarity. The aim is to reach agreements that are practical, sustainable and reduce the likelihood of future disputes. If court becomes necessary, your matter is prepared with care and direction.
Parenting arrangements are not just about reaching an agreement at the moment. They need to work over time, in real life. That is where clear advice early makes a difference.
How We Work Together
Step 1. Book Free Discovery Call
We listen to your situation, identify the immediate issues and help you understand the most sensible next step.
Step 2. Get Clear Advice
We explain your legal position, answer your questions and outline a practical strategy for divorce, parenting and property matters.
Step 3. Confident Resolution
We work toward a legally binding outcome through negotiation, mediation, or court, where required, so you can move forward with certainty.
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Hayder Shkara is the Director of Justice Family Lawyers and a recognised authority in Australian family law. He holds a Bachelor of Laws and Bachelor of Communications from UTS, and provides clear, strategic advice across divorce, parenting and property matters.
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Meet Hayder Shkara - Director, Justice Family Lawyers
Hayder Shkara is recognised for his thought leadership and is considered an authority in Australian family law, supported by his strong public presence and consistent industry recognition.
As the founder and director of Justice Family Lawyers, he has built a reputation for delivering structured, outcome-focused advice across complex family law matters.
Hayder is known for combining clear legal strategy with practical, client-focused guidance. His work reflects a balance of strong technical knowledge and measured, empathetic support, helping clients understand their position and make informed decisions.
An Olympian who represented Australia in Taekwondo at the Rio de Janeiro Olympic Games, Hayder brings discipline, strategic thinking and composure to high-pressure legal situations.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a lawyer if we already agree on arrangements?
Even if you agree, legal advice is recommended. Informal agreements are not legally enforceable. A lawyer can help formalise arrangements through a parenting plan or consent orders, ensuring clarity, reducing future disputes, and protecting both parties if circumstances change later.
What is the difference between shared custody and sole custody?
In Australia, ‘child custody’ is an outdated term and is now referred to as parenting arrangements. ‘Shared custody’, or shared care, means the child spends significant time with both parents, whether on a 50/50 time split, or any other type of split that works for the family. ‘Sole custody’, which is known as primary care, typically involves one parent having primary care and decision-making responsibility, with, or without regular contact or time spent with the other parent.
What is equal shared decision- making?
Under section 61DAA of the Family Law Act 1975, equal shared decision-making refers to an order requiring both parents to agree on long-term decisions for their children. This means both parents are expected to jointly make major choices regarding the child, including education, health, and religion. It does not mean equal time, and can apply when parents don’t have equal time with their children.
For instance, one parent may have the children ten days a fortnight, and the other four days a fortnight, but both parents have equal decision-making and agree to consult with each other and jointly make major choices. Sole decision-making may be more suitable in some situations, such as when safety concerns arise, or there is ongoing high-conflict.
Is there a standard care split in Australia?
There is no standard or default care arrangement in Australia. The court does not presume a 50/50 time split or any particular split, despite common misconceptions to the contrary. Parenting arrangements are based on the child’s best interests, including their needs, each parent’s capacity, and practical factors such as distance, schooling, and routines. A child’s age is also a very important factor in some parenting matters, and arrangements may need to be adjusted over time.
Can custody arrangements be changed later on?
Yes. Parenting plans can be changed at any time. Consent orders can be changed if both parties agree, or if there has been a ‘significant change of circumstances’ since the final orders were made, under section 65DAAA of the Family Law Act 1975. Changes may include relocation, changes in the child’s needs, or safety concerns. Updates are usually attempted through agreement first, but court applications may be required if disputes arise.
What if the other parent refuses to cooperate?
If one parent will not engage, you may need to attempt family dispute resolution before applying to court. If unresolved, you can seek parenting orders. A lawyer can guide you through mediation requirements, exemptions where safety is an issue, and the court process.